一个叫欧维的男人决定去死。
他尝试了许多种死法，每次都没有成功。
他没有很强的活着的欲望，也没有必死的觉悟。好像日子就这样，活着也行，待会儿死也可以。
欧维觉得自己不重要。
就在这要死或活的过程里，我读完了他的人生之路，了解了欧维是怎样的人，认识了索雅。
整本书我大概眼眶泛红了二十次不止，不是那种放声痛哭的惨烈，也没有那种会心一笑的释然，就是眼前漫出一层雾气，不爆发，不散去，凄凉、无奈又隐忍。
索雅大概占了哭点的四层：这么美好的人啊，为什么不能被上天温柔相待！这么美好的人啊，为什么不能得到幸福！这么美好的人啊！
欧维占了剩下的全部哭点：这么美好的人啊！这么高尚的人！人们看到他暴躁的脾气，无止境的抱怨，冷漠自私一意孤行！但剥开这些外壳，他是一个多么温柔又脆弱的人。
一声叹息。
在这本书上搜集到散乱的想法：
1.我们从来不是孤独的，我们被别人需要也需要别人。无论是否表达，没人能全身而退。
2.善恶是否有报没有必然的答案，社会在随机中运转，除了服从与适应于这样的运转，我们无能无力。美好的人会受伤害；善良的人出奇的软弱；你为流浪狗找领养人，有人敲着键盘骂你那么伟大为什么不自己养；闯红灯的人躲过一劫，等红灯的人被不遵守规则的人撞死；我承受不了，也无能为力。
3.应该相信生活总会变着花样在引你走向正途。索雅接受了她的不公命运，顺其自然气定神闲。她在欧维身上留下这么多彩蛋，在她离开之后一一出现。
5.女人有女人的美丽，男人有男人的魅力。他们截然不同的聚在一起，真是美妙。
4.我希望他们能有个孩子，虽然最后他们有了，但我还是希望。
5.我们总会在这样脏乱不堪的生活中，找到活下去的理由。
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